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Rory Gilmore and Janie Junebug love books and share ’em.

February 8, 2020 By Karl Leave a Comment

Many of you remember The Gilmore Girls popular show which aired 2000- 2007. It created a book club for people to read all of the 339 books referenced on the show, esp by Rory Gilmore who loved reading books. She also loved the smell of books.

Rory Gilmore loves books.

Rory   taught us   important things that are now a part of many people’s everyday life.

First – always take a book with you. This tip has saved countless of us from complete boredom. Whether we’re meeting up with a friend who’s running  late, or on a break at work and by ourselves, having a book tucked away  to fill the quiet is so much better than scrolling through cellphones.

Second – share books you love with others. In that vein, I’m shamelessly featuring a blog written by a talented blogger and editor, Janie Junebug who wrote this blog several years ago.

 

 

Janie Junebug shares books.

“Today I have a very special BOOK NOOK presentation for you––a book to read in tandem with our BULLY FOR YOU series. It’s Cleft Heart. Perhaps you noticed that Karl weighed in on some of your comments last week with the first BULLY FOR YOU post.

I hope you’ll get to know Karl. This is what he looks like:

Karl Schonborn, Author
And here’s his book:

Red and black cover of Cleft Heart

Karl told me, ‘I wrote Cleft Heart mostly to show kids with facial differences that they can rise above, that normal is a state of mind, that you’re only as ‘normal’ as you feel.

And, too, I wrote it because I found out no cleft had ever written about the cleft palate experience before. Can you imagine?”

Yes, Karl Schonborn was born with a cleft lip and palate, ‘meaning an unjoined lip and gum, and a hole in the roof of his mouth.’ But his memoir offers far more than the story of a boy with a facial deformity.

It has a universality in that we all need to connect––to communicate––with other people. Whether we have complications because of a speech impediment or shyness or acne, each of us is alone, reaching out for the interconnectedness of human kind…

Schonborn writes plaintively of an early inability to connect:

‘But nothing compared to the pain in my heart. It reminded me of my first public humiliation years ago when my mom inadvertently left me with a group of strangers for a minute.

Judgmental eyes and headshakes shamed me after I made a simple statement in front of the group. Wanting to redeem myself at once, I screwed up my face and courage and concentrated on enunciating during a second attempt.

As the words started in my throat, I contracted my lips, tensed my cheeks, and gritted my teeth to make the words more intelligible. But to no avail. By the time the words emerged, they still sounded nasal and whiny as if coming from an underwater source.

Upon hearing my second try, the people staring at me needed no further proof, given my scarred, asymmetrical face. A couple called me names I didn’t understand. Most turned their backs and left.

I stared at the ground until Mom reclaimed me. I felt awful until I told Mom. We both cried then.’

Mother a heroine.

Schonborn wasn’t completely alone because he had such a strong relationship with his mother, who championed his causes and made sure he received the medical treatment and speech therapy he needed.

As his voice and face became more ‘normal,’, the still young boy embarked on a friendliness campaign to extend his connection to the world. And all the while, he stood up to bullies who taunted and mistreated him.

Schonborn also travels Forrest Gumpishly, though with a much higher IQ, through the history of the United States during the ’40s, ’50s, and ’60s. He takes part in the beginnings of Silicon Valley, learns about non-violence from Joan Baez and her cohorts, and encounters future Secretary of State John Kerry during their college days.

Cleft Heart includes a captivating endorsement by Kerry. Schonborn travels much of the world as a young man, on the literal and figurative road to maturity–a maturity he needs desperately when he faces a major loss.

Schonborn writes in the voice of a person with a great deal of perception, yet he maintains a sense of humor throughout much of the book. Cleft Heart: Chasing Normal earns The Janie Junebug Highest Seal of Approval.…

Here’s the trailer for Cleft Heart:

You can order Cleft Heart here.

And now I wish you happy reading.”

A sampling of the 32 comments to Janie’s blog:

Lynda Dietz8:21 AM, May 20, 2014

 Karl’s story sounds like an incredible journey. Thanks for telling us all about it! I’ll have to check it out.

Shelly10:41 AM, May 20, 2014

I strongly endorse this book for the very reasons you’ve articulated so well here. A great book~

Stephen Hayes11:21 AM, May 20, 2014

You’re doing a great service by promoting a book that reflects the burden of so many people.

Nicki Elson9:55 PM, May 20, 2014

 …Karl is an awesome and brave man to tell this story that so many need to hear.

Jo-Anne Meadows10:45 PM, May 21, 2014

Oh, I liked this post it was great and made me feel good.

Books are special.

So, listen to Janie and Rory, and share Cleft Heart with your friends.

To learn about CLEFT HEART: Chasing Normal, click the Amazon or Barnes & Noble buttons in the margins. Or click the image of the book cover. My coming-of-age memoir has intertwining love stories, mystery, tragedy, and triumph.

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