Cleft lip daughter and Black daughter-in-law: McCain’s OK.

I’ve had a love-hate relationship with Senator John McCain over the years—not unlike the relationship Trump has had with the senator. We’ve both disagreed with some of McCain’s conservative politics, but for vastly different reasons. Interestingly enough, tho, Trump endorsed McCain this week, knowing that he (Trump) had had a perfectly horrible week and that McCain faces a tough re-election battle in Arizona. For details re the endorsement, see the end of my blog post.

Cleft lip daughter, Black daughter-in-law.

I began taking a second look at McCain after his wife, Cindy, and he adopted a girl with a cleft lip and palate from Bangladesh years ago.  That daughter Bridget is fully grown now and is a great sister to McCain’s biological Meghan. The two sisters prove that the McCain family tent is large.

In June of 2013, I noticed something else about McCain’s family. The tent was expanding further with the wedding of his son Jack McCain to Renee Swift in San Francisco. As a SF Bay Area resident, I was aware of some of the details which the McCains had chosen not to ballyhoo to gain political points: namely that the marriage was interracial. Swift, 29, a Bay area native, is a captain in the USAF reserve and a black woman. The couple met in Guam.

The fun thing about the nuptials were the iconic Bay Area sites involved. The wedding ceremony was held at San Francisco’s Grace Cathedral, with a reception following at the Italianate part of California Academy of Sciences. The rehearsal dinner took place in the Tonga Room of the Fairmont Hotel. (Another former presidential candidate— Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney—attended.

For  these reasons, I sought out the “Hanoi Hilton” on a recent visit to Viet Nam. I visited the famous prison where McCain was held prisoner during the Viet Nam war. Despite some of Trump’s earlier comments regarding “POW” McCain, the Senator certainly paid his dues during that awful war. That’s more than we can say for Trump.


6 people in Sen John McCain's family

Sen McCain with cleft lip daughter & new daughter-in-law

Black-White dustup over Old Navy ad.


McCain’s son Jack appears to be following the example of race-blindness set by his father. A May 2016 Old Navy store ad featuring an interracial couple (black female/white male) and their child elicited a negative backlash from some people on social media. Jack McCain entered the fray by tweeting his reaction. See CNN story below.

The young McCains  couple went to an Old Navy store to make a purchase to further demonstrate their support of the retail giant.


(CNN)Arizona Republican Sen. John McCain’s son, Jack, is pushing back against critics of an Old Navy ad who took issue with the spot posted Friday that features an interracial couple.

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Jack McCain who is married to Air Force Officer Renee Swift McCain, a black woman, joined a bunch of Twitter users by posting pictures of their family with the #LoveWins and slamming critics of the ad.


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 He followed this post up with another tweeting, “I hope this one burns too, you ignorant racists. Here is us on our wedding day.”


McCain Is Conservative But Not Racist.

Overall, Black writer CherylJ said it best. She wrote here not long ago:

“Say what you will about the political views of U.S. Senator John McCain, (Arizona), and the 2008 Republican candidate for U.S. President who ran against Barack Obama, but he is not racist. The evidence for this can be demonstrated through a few of his actions.

First, in 1991, his wife, Cindy and he adopted a daughter from a Bangladesh orphanage when they were on a mission in that country. Born with a cleft lip, the McCains’ decided to adopt Bridget so they could bring her back to the U.S. to receive needed medical attention.

Second, in June 2013, their son, Jack McCain, a lieutenant in the Air Force, married Renee Swift, an Air Force reserve captain. What is notable about this marriage is that Ms. Swift is African American and little public fanfare was made over this fact. The wedding was a lavish affair and the public learned that the new Mrs. McCain was African American on the day of the event. Photos taken from the wedding show a beaming McCain family.

I applaud Senator McCain for treating his son’s marriage as a private family affair and not attempting to politically exploit in any way the racial background of his new daughter-in-law. It demonstrates a certain level of class which is sadly lacking in the current U.S. political climate.


Trump endorses McCain.

“Washington (CNN)Donald Trump endorsed House Speaker Paul Ryan and Arizona Sen. John McCain on Friday, moving to mend an intra-party rift that has put the Republican presidential nominee at odds with its highest-ranking elected official.

Trump’s endorsements came at a rally in Green Bay, Wisconsin.
“We will have disagreements, but we will disagree as friends and never stop working together toward victory. And very importantly, toward real change,” Trump said, reading off a prepared statement. …
Trump earlier in the week had declined to endorse Ryan and McCain, as well as New Hampshire Sen. Kelly Ayotte.
… “I hold in the highest esteem Sen. John McCain for his service to our country in uniform and in public office, and I fully support and endorse his re-election,” said Trump. . . “


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